To say I’ve never been a big fan of Halloween is like saying Niagara Falls doesn’t have a lot of water. The very thought of Halloween makes me cringe. Why would people choose to display death-related, gory and stomach-churning visuals smack dab in the middle of their front lawns? I find it down right strange.
Halloween has become the most popular holiday after Christmas. Halloween of all events! At this time of year, I feel like the odd person out. Even as a child, friends talked about their costumes and dressing up. I never felt comfortable putting on a costume and pretending I wasn’t actually me. Then add on the freakiness of the holiday, and I was done.
I’ve always been a highly sensitive person. When all of my friends were watching Freddy Kruger movies, I gladly excused myself from the gathering. As an adult, I have yet to watch a single CSI episode. That show gives me nightmares. I’ve even stopped watching the nightly news and only read what’s happening in the world because it gives me bad dreams. So I actually dread when Halloween comes around.
Halloween is a Real Horror for the Highly Sensitive Child
My 10 year old son, Vman, has Sensory Processing Disorder. And like a lot of kids with SPD, he also has a lot of anxiety, which really rears it’s ugly head around Halloween.
The sight of a happy Halloween decoration used to upset him when he was younger. Even still, the most watered-down Halloween episodes on Disney Channel are too tough for him to process. And the adult stuff… well, let’s not go there. He had a crying spell last year because he was so spooked as people brought out their ghouls, ghosts and goblins.
I think it’s reasonable to wonder if his fear of Halloween is because of his SPD or because he is a sensitive dude. He may not display his emotions often, but calm waters run deep in many of our sensory kids. We’ve learned that often his emotions are too much for him to process, so he shuts down or decides to not address them. It would be too scary.
My husband, on the other hand, can’t get enough of Halloween. Our house would be decked out with red shining lights, cackling sound tracks and flying witches if it was up to him. There are a lot of parents that get wrapped up in Halloween just like he does. Thankfully he recognizes why Vman has such a hard time with Halloween.
I think many of parents, however, just don’t understand just how frightening Halloween can be to some kids. It’s not just about being scared. It’s about being truly terrified for some of our children.
So this Halloween, I ask you to remember that Halloween isn’t necessarily a celebration of the spooky. For some of us, it’s an absolute horror come alive.
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